To get divorced in New York, you must first meet the residency requirements. Then, choose either fault or no-fault grounds for divorce. File the necessary documents, including a Summons with Notice or Summons and Complaint, with the County Clerk’s Office. Serve your spouse with the divorce papers and file an Affidavit of Service. If your spouse responds and contests the divorce, negotiate a settlement or proceed to court. For uncontested divorces, submit additional forms and wait for a judge’s approval. Once the judge signs the Judgment of Divorce, your divorce is finalized. Consulting a family law attorney is recommended for guidance.